The Turtle
Let’s be honest for a second. In the grand buffet of sex positions, some feel like the main course, some more like quirky side dishes. Then there are those that seem unassuming at first glance, yet turn out to be surprisingly satisfying.
The turtle sex position is one of those. It might not have the acrobatic flair of some others, but that’s sort of the point. It’s simple, grounded, deeply intimate in a strange way, and a bit more primal than you’d expect.
This guide isn’t here to sell you fireworks or flips. It’s here to introduce a low-key but very effective way to connect physically. Whether you're curious, bored of the usual, or just in need of something that prioritises pleasure over performance, the turtle might be worth a try.
What Is the Turtle Sex Position?
First off, don’t be put off by the name. It’s not about moving slowly (although it can be), and it definitely doesn’t involve shells. The turtle position is a variation of doggy style, but with a few subtle differences that completely change the sensation.
In this position, the receiving partner lies flat on their stomach, hips down, legs straight or slightly spread. The penetrating partner mounts from behind, keeping close and low, almost chest-to-back contact depending on height and flexibility. There’s less arching of the back and more full-body contact, making it feel closer, heavier, and a touch more intense.
It’s sometimes called the "flat doggy" or even "squashed turtle" depending on who you ask. But naming conventions aside, the vibe is consistent: deep, steady penetration, a secure and almost enveloping hold, and less bouncing around.
The magic of the turtle isn’t in its complexity, but in the sensation it creates. It’s enveloping. A bit animalistic. And surprisingly intimate. It removes visual drama in favour of raw sensation.
How to Do the Turtle
Setting up the turtle doesn’t require flexibility or a background in yoga, which is already a win in our books. Here’s how it generally goes:
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The receiving partner lies face down on the bed, legs stretched out or slightly apart. Arms can be under the body, at the sides, or reaching up - whatever feels natural.
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The giving partner enters from behind, kneeling or crouching low. The goal is to stay close, not high up. Think pressure rather than lift.
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Once connected, movement can be slow and steady or more intense depending on preference.
This position allows for:
- A deeper angle of penetration - fantastic for G-spot stimulation
- Less visual distraction and more focus on sensation
- Physical closeness that can be both grounding and intense
A few tips:
- Pillows under the hips can adjust the angle for more comfort or depth
- Communication is key. Pressure and depth vary hugely, so checking in matters
- It can be good for quieter moments. The muffled position means less talking, more feeling
Why Should We Engage in the Turtle?
You might be wondering, why choose this over standard doggy style or missionary? What does the turtle bring to the bedroom table?
For one, it reduces performative energy. There's no need to hold yourself in place, or strike a certain pose. It’s relaxed, naturally submissive (for the receiving partner), and gives a sense of being held or enveloped. That can make it feel deeply erotic for both parties.
The full-body contact has its own benefits:
- It's great for people who enjoy pressure or the sensation of weight
- The skin-to-skin element can feel incredibly connecting
- It encourages slower, more deliberate movements which can heighten sensation
And, crucially, it offers a different angle. Depending on body types, it can stimulate different erogenous zones and provide a new kind of intensity. For some, the flattening of the hips opens up more targeted pressure. For others, it’s the stillness and control.
There’s also something to be said for positions that don’t require constant adjustment. The turtle can be held for longer periods without strain, meaning it lends itself well to a more drawn-out, immersive experience.
How to Spice Up the Turtle Sex Position?
Just because the turtle is a low-key position doesn’t mean it has to be boring. In fact, its simplicity makes it a great base to build from. A few tweaks can completely shift the tone and intensity.
Here are a few ideas:
- Add Toys: A vibrator between the legs or under the hips can add clitoral or perineal stimulation. Sex toys can easily turn something mellow into something overwhelming, in a good way
- Adjust Hip Angles: Try placing a pillow or folded towel under the hips. A small elevation changes the angle of entry and can help with G-spot and prostate stimulation
- Sensory Play: Blindfolds, light spanking, or termperature play (like ice cubes or warm oil) can enhance the sensory richness of a position that's already about feeling, not just seeing
- Hand Involvement: The receiving partner's hands are often free meaning they can be used for touching themselves, grabbing the sheets or even guiding rhythm
- Dirty Talk or Whispering: Whispering (or not-so-sweet) nothings be intensely erotic
Also, switching the rhythm and depth mid-way can help avoid monotony. Slow it down to a near stop, then speed up again. Surprise can be just as sexy as sensation.
Give It a Try
The turtle position might not be a headline act in most sex manuals, but perhaps it should be. It’s got a bit of everything: intimacy, intensity, simplicity, and a solid dose of pleasure. It lets partners connect without theatrics, and sometimes, that’s exactly what you need.
Whether you try it for comfort, closeness, or curiosity, there’s plenty of value in keeping things grounded. And who knows? What starts off as a quiet choice might end up being one of your favourites.
