Beginner's Guide to Condoms

Condoms? They may that 'embarrassing' product that we all go rosy-cheeked over when purchasing in-store, but these little pocket protectors should always be available for when the moment happens, when you least expect it. 

For a lot of us, we used to get our hands on them from a young age and either make water balloons or try blow them over our heads. However, their actual purpose is a lot more practical. 

Whatever your previous experience with condoms may be, we have compiled this helpful guide to either give you a basic understanding or to top up your knowledge.

What are condoms?

At a basic level, condoms are straightforward. They act as a barrier. That’s the simple explanation, and it’s technically correct, but it doesn’t quite capture how important that barrier is or how much nuance there is in using one properly.

A condom is typically a thin sheath made from latex, polyisoprene or polyurethane. It’s designed to fit over an erect penis and prevent semen from entering a partner’s body during sex. That barrier is what reduces the risk of both pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections. It sounds almost mechanical when you put it like that, but in reality, the way condoms behave depends a lot on fit, material, and even how they’re stored.

Read more: Can You Get Pregnant from Precum?

Something people don’t always realise is that condoms are not just about stopping something. They also control exposure. That includes bodily fluids, bacteria, and viruses.  You might not think about it moment to moment, but it’s doing quite a lot in the background.

There are also internal condoms, sometimes called female condoms, which sit inside the vagina rather than over the penis. These work slightly differently but achieve the same end result. They create a lining that prevents direct contact.

A few things that tend to get overlooked:

• Condoms rely on correct use. Not just wearing one, but wearing it properly from start to finish
• Material matters. Some people are sensitive to latex and don’t realise it straight away
• Storage plays a role. Heat, friction, even keeping one in a wallet too long can weaken it

There’s also this idea that condoms are all the same. They’re really not. Thickness, lubrication, shape, and even scent can vary quite a lot. Some are designed to feel barely there, others to last longer, and some to enhance sensation in specific ways.

I think where people sometimes go wrong is assuming a condom is just a default item, like something you grab without thinking. In reality, it’s more like choosing the right pair of shoes. If it doesn’t fit properly or feel right, you’re going to notice, and not in a good way.

 

Why use a condom?

It’s Not Just About Pregnancy

A lot of people associate condoms primarily with pregnancy prevention. That’s understandable, but it’s only part of the picture.

Sexually transmitted infections are a significant factor, and condoms are one of the simplest ways to reduce that risk. Not eliminate it entirely, but reduce it in a meaningful way.

What makes this tricky is that many infections don’t show obvious symptoms. So relying on assumptions about a partner’s health can be misleading.

Reducing Risk Without Overcomplicating Things

One of the strengths of condoms is how accessible they are. No prescription, no long-term commitment, no hormonal side effects.

They can also be used alongside other forms of contraception. That combination approach is something people don’t always consider, but it adds an extra layer of reassurance.

The Mental Side of Protection

There’s also something less tangible. Peace of mind. When you’re not distracted by worry, the experience tends to feel more relaxed.

It’s not something people always articulate, but it shows up in how present they are.

Some benefits that tend to get overlooked:

• No impact on hormones
• Easy to carry and use when needed
• Shared responsibility between partners
• Immediate protection rather than delayed effectiveness

Why People Still Avoid Them Sometimes

Even with all of that, some people hesitate. Usually because of concerns about sensation, interruption, or comfort.

And to be fair, those concerns aren’t entirely unfounded. A poorly fitting condom can feel restrictive or distracting. But that’s usually a mismatch issue rather than a flaw with condoms in general.

So in General

• Preventing Pregnancy: Condoms are 98% effective with perfect use (which means you follow the instructions like you’re assembling flat-pack furniture). 

• Fend Off STIs: Condoms are like bouncers for your bits, keeping out unwanted guests like Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea, and HIV from entering your body.

• Accessibility: No doctor’s note or secret handshake required. Condoms are available at pharmacies, supermarkets, on the internet and even vending machines! So, there are no excuses.

 

Types of Condoms: The Diverse Selection

This is usually the part people skim. Which is slightly ironic, because it’s probably the section that has the biggest impact on how condoms feel in practice.

A lot of the complaints about condoms, whether that’s reduced sensation, discomfort, or just a general sense that something feels “off”, come down to using the wrong type. Not condoms as a category, just the specific one someone picked up without thinking too much about it.

It’s a bit like buying shoes without checking the size properly. You can walk in them, technically, but you’re always aware of them.

1. Latex Condoms:

Latex is the most common material, and for good reason. It’s flexible, widely available, and generally reliable.

Most people will use latex condoms at some point without any issues. They strike a balance between durability and sensation that works for a broad range of people.

That said, they’re not perfect for everyone.

A few things to keep in mind:

• Latex cannot be used with oil-based lubricants
• Some people have mild sensitivities that they don’t immediately recognise
• They tend to have a slightly “standardised” feel

View our range of latex condoms

2. Non-Latex Condoms:

Perfect for those with latex allergies. Options include polyurethane, polyisoprene, and lambskin (though the latter doesn’t protect against STIs).

Latex Free Condoms are the ideal solution for those that cannot use traditional condoms. They are typically thinner too allowing for greater intimacy and come in XL sizes too so everybody can use.

Read more: How to Use Non-Latex Condoms

3. Textured Condoms:

Ribbed, dotted, or otherwise textured condoms are designed to increase stimulation and sensitivity.

View our Dots & Ribs condoms

4. Flavoured Condoms:

Great for oral sex and those who enjoy a hint of strawberry or mint with their safety. 

View our range of flavoured condoms

5. Ultra-Thin Condoms:

For those who prefer to forget they’re wearing one. Ultra-thin condoms still provide protection but feel closer to the real deal helping to feel more intimate and achieving climax.

View our ultra thin condoms

 

Choosing the Right Fit: Because Size Matters

Why Fit Is the Most Important Factor

If a condom doesn’t fit properly, everything else becomes secondary. Too tight, and it can feel restrictive or even uncomfortable. Too loose, and it may slip or feel unstable.

The tricky part is that many people never actually try different sizes. They just assume one size works for everyone.

It doesn’t.

Thickness and Sensation

Thinner condoms tend to allow more sensation, but that doesn’t mean thicker ones are bad. Some people prefer the added reassurance.

It’s not always about maximising sensation. Sometimes it’s about balance.

Material Differences

Latex is the most common, but alternatives exist for a reason. Polyisoprene and polyurethane feel slightly different and are suitable for people with sensitivities.

Trying a different material can change the experience more than expected.

Lubrication and Texture

Some condoms come with more lubrication than others. If things feel dry or uncomfortable, adding extra lubricant is often the simplest fix.

Textured condoms, like ribbed or dotted, are designed to increase stimulation. Whether they actually do depends on the individual.

Things to Consider When Choosing

• Fit should come first
• Material can affect comfort
• Lubrication levels matter
• Don’t rely on one type out of habit

There’s a bit of trial and error involved. That’s normal. Most people don’t find the right option immediately, even if they think they have.

Skins' Top Tip: We offer packs of 4 across our range so you can sample our types of condoms meaning you can try before committing to bulk buying.

 

How to Use a Condom: Step-by-Step for Success

Using a condom is easier than parallel parking but requires a bit of practice. Follow these steps, and you’ll be a pro in no time. Head on over to our guide on how to put on a condom to get more in-depth details.

1. Check the Expiry Date:

No one likes spoiled milk or expired condoms. Always check the date and ensure the packaging is intact.

2. Open Carefully:

Tear along the edge, not with your teeth. You’re opening a condom, not a bag of crisps.

3. Pinch the Tip:

Before rolling it on, pinch the reservoir tip to leave space for the “ahem” finish.

4. Roll It Down:

Place it on the head of the penis and roll it down the shaft to the base. If it’s inside out, toss it and start fresh (pre-cum can carry STIs or sperm).

5. Lube It Up:

If needed, add water-based or silicone-based lube for extra glide. Never use oil-based products like petroleum jelly, baby oil or coconut oil with latex condoms. All Skins Condoms come extra lubricated as standard.

Check out our Beginner's Guide to Lube to learn more.

6. Hold Tight When Withdrawing:

After the main event, hold the condom at the base and withdraw before losing your erection. Dispose of it in the bin, not the loo (unless you want a plumber involved).

 

Condoms Do's and Don'ts: The Golden Rules

DO:

• Store condoms in a cool, dry place. (Not your wallet)

• Use a new condom every time.

• Talk to your partner about using condoms – communication is sexy.

 

DON'T:

• Reuse a condom (duh).

• Use two condoms at once (double the layers, double the chance of breakage).

• Assume all condoms are the same – read the label for special instructions.

 

The Awkward Bits: Condoms FAQs

 

1. What if the condom breaks?

Don’t panic. If a condom breaks, stop immediately. Emergency contraception is an option if pregnancy is a concern, and both partners should get tested for STIs.

 

2. Can I put on a condom with my mouth?

Some people love to do this, we mean, sure go for it if you're feeling confident you can do this without damaging the condom. If you are inexperienced in this can practice on either a banana, cucumber or a cleaned sex toy (if one is readily available).

 

3. Why does the condom feel uncomfortable?

It’s likely the wrong size or material. Experiment with different options to find what works best.

 

Let's Wrap It Up (Pun Fully Intended)

And there you have it – everything you need to know about condoms in one handy guide. Whether you’re a first-timer or a seasoned pro, remember that condoms are your trusty sidekick for safer, more enjoyable sex. So go forth, stay protected, and have fun, because safe sex is the best sex, and a little humour makes it even better.